🌿 The Belief System Part 5: “The Friction of Becoming”

“When your old self burns, the smoke makes it hard to see who you’re becoming.”

Welcome to the in-between.

This is the part most people run from — the transitional tension, the identity friction, the cognitive and emotional static of becoming.

You are no longer who you were.
But not yet stabilized as who you’re becoming.


😵‍💫 Symptoms of the In-Between:

  • You mourn people who are still alive
  • Your passions feel ungrounded
  • You feel too big for old boxes but too unformed for new ones
  • You want to “go back” even though it would crush you

This is not regression.
This is integration.


?What to Do Here:

  • Let the smoke rise — you don’t need to see clearly to move forward
  • Rest. This is not failure — it’s molting.
  • Speak your truth even when it trembles.
  • Let old roles die so new roots can deepen

You are not lost.
You are stretching.

You are not falling apart.
You are falling into form.

The in-between isn’t a mistake.
It’s the sacred space where new shapes are born from old ashes.

Honor the ache.
Bless the blur.
Stretch into the unknown — it’s already stretching toward you.

You are not falling apart.
You are falling into form.

The in-between isn’t a mistake.
It’s the sacred space where new shapes are born from old ashes.

Honor the ache.
Bless the blur.
Stretch into the unknown — it’s already stretching toward you.

The in-between isn’t a mistake.
It’s the sacred space where new shapes are born from old ashes.

Honor the ache.
Bless the blur.
Stretch into the unknown — it’s already stretching toward you.

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